• About Tammy Gustafson

You can heal and create a life you’re excited to live.

You have a good future ahead of you. 

YES, I WANT THIS

You never wanted betrayal to be your story.

You didn’t ask for this. You didn’t cause it.

It wasn’t your fault (no matter what anyone says!), but it’s your story now.

But you may not realize that yes, betrayal shatters the good, but it also shatters the bad.

It shatters old patterns that maybe weren’t serving you.
It shatters the boxes that you were trying to squeeze yourself into. All of the messages you got that buried you or weighed you down. 

As you heal from betrayal, you also have the opportunity to define for yourself what you want life to look like going forward. 

I know, because this is my story.

When life “blew up” I was 10 years into what I thought was a perfect marriage.

My husband’s betrayal shattered me and everything I’d known. 

But I was able to heal. I’m no longer angry or sad. I also discovered new parts of myself along the way.

Which is why I know it’s possible for you too.

You can heal.

You can step into your power. 

You can find beauty, joy, and adventure again.

You’ve got one life to live. Let’s make it beautiful. 

  • About Tammy Gustafson
  • Tammy Gustafson

Tammy’s Bio

Tammy Gustafson is a trauma-informed licensed professional counselor, coach, author, and speaker with over fifteen years of experience. She is passionate about helping women pick up the broken pieces of their hearts after intimate betrayal, find their strength, navigate the counterintuitive process of healing, and discover new ways to live with purpose, joy, and confidence.

Tammy holds a master’s degree in counseling. She is the host of the Betrayal Healing Conference and leads retreats for betrayed partners to Paris, France. She is a certified EMDR therapist and is the founder and CEO of Betrayal Healing and LiveFree Counseling.

Tammy is the bestselling author of Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal, released in January 2026.

BUY BROKEN TO BRAVE BOOK

a few things that
MIGHT SURPRISE YOU

Because you are not defined by what your partner did and you are so much more than what you are healing from.

These things helped me find joy, adventure, and beauty again.

…and if you see a redhead singing at the top of her lungs on the roads outside Denver, it’s probably me.

It’s a mix of risk, adventure, and play (which I love). It also helped me find my path back to fun and freedom.

…to reconnect to myself while walking along the Seine at night, eating chocolate croissants, drinking wine, and losing myself in the beauty of Paris.

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